In my post earlier today I may have been unclear. That may be because I have lots of thoughts rolling around in my head. Maybe I didn't really know where I wanted to go with this or how to get my thoughts out there. I was just so awed by Jim and Barbara's love for each other and for their children and grandchildren. They are great people and have certainly done better in life than their parents did. For all the changes that they have made in life, for all that they have come through together, their family seems doomed to hardships.
I will think on this and get back to it again - later.